Archive for December, 2009

What is the right way to make an approach to someone?

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

What is the right way to make an approach to someone?
Here is my question:
If you happen to have some place that you go very often( could be the store, supermarket, deli, gym, etc ) and happen to find someone works there that you like but it is hard to find the chance to make some approaches because you can’t really make some approaches while they’re working at the place. But you can’t seem to give up and miss the chance.

Maybe find out what time the person gets off work and talk to him/her then. Maybe ask to go out for coffee.

Could you please help with mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmyZUPxDW1kIwRCv7J4K34YazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20091212152507AAe4lVO

3.Describe one similarly and one difference between any social approach study (6)?

Monday, December 21st, 2009


Use the Robber’s cave study again.

I’m not sure how to approach a girl at a social event?

Friday, December 18th, 2009

I want to talk to this girl I like and I think that she likes me. I’m shy so I’m not sure how to build confidence to go up and talk to her. Also i would want to start talking to her while she’s alone because it would be weird to start talking to her with her friends right there. So any tips for going up and talking to her P.S. I’m in 8th grade.

text her before and ask her if she is going. tell her you will see her there. say hey to her when you get there and maybe if you are lucky she will strike up a conversation. if she likes you then she will want to engage the conversation.

Compare and contrast the model countries & identify one distinct approach to criminal justice?

Friday, December 18th, 2009

The six model countries are:
1. England: exemplifying a Common Law system
2. France: exemplifying a unitary Civil Law system
3. Germany: exemplifying a federal Civil Law system
4. China: exemplifying a Socialist Law system
5. Saudi Arabia: exemplifying a Sacred Legal system
6. Japan: exemplifying a hybrid system (made up of elements of various others but distinctive
Please compare and contrast the six model countries, identify one distinct approach to criminal justice that each of the model countries exemplifies. Or please provide a website that does this.
Thanks!

as stated already

How can I approach the making of a complicated story?

Friday, December 18th, 2009

I want to write a story that is complicated. Meaning, I want it to have twists and a whole back story explaining why things are the way they are. I’ve already began a timeline, a plotline for my story, character developments, organization developments, etc. How else can I approach this?

Well, since I’m going through the same pains with writing my quite-complicated-and-unpredictable trilogy, I’m gonna offer you some advice.

First method you could use I call the Ribbon Technique. The RT is when you take in your entire story and you untangle each plotline, one by one, and work on each on its own. Say you have a plot that consists of a guy and girl colliding and as a result their lives are changed completely. What you do is you separate the guy’s story from the girl’s and you work on one story at a time, creating gaps or marking the places in which the girl and guy overlap.

This is quite the difficult method, since mistakes can be easily made. You can lose track of your plots altogether, but with this method you’ll be surprised how much you can learn about your novel. The characters in the Ribbon Tecnique unravel and live their own life, much like reality. Using this method, your characters are guaranteed to get that lifelike air to them.

2) The other method I use is the Rough Outline. You open a blank Microsoft Word (or whatever word processor you’re using) and you write whatever comes to your mind concerning the book. It doesn’t need to be in order. You can write:

John is tall, bald and usually smiling.

*and the suddenly you feel like writing:

It’s fall when Josie returns to college.

*or even character’s likes and dislikes or quirks:

Josie hates peaches because they leave a bitter taste in her mouth.

-Rough Outline helps you unwind your creative juices. After some twenty pages of writing tidbits about your plot and characters, or character background, you print it out and read it, re-read it, write over it with a pen or highlight what you like and cross out what you don’t like. You can do this over a cup of coffee, in the bath, on the couch or just about anywhere.

The neat thing about the Rough Outline is that it helps you develop characters. Once the character is fully developed it will talk to you and tell you their demand. I’m not kidding, mate. I have three or four fully developed chraracters in my novel and they talk to me and give me a good or bad gut feeling, telling me whether the scene I’m working on is good or whether it sucks.

That’s what I’m using.

Here’s a link to another method one successful writer developed. It’s called the Snowflake Method:

http://www.advancedfictionwriting.com/art/snowflake.php

Consider using it if you don’t like my two suggestions.

Hope this helps. I got back problems looming over my laptop typing this up LOL
And it’s 6 in the morning :)

What is the best approach for a shy cat?

Friday, December 18th, 2009

Basically so far I’ve been lying on the floor calling the cat and hoping he would come to me, is this the best approach?

Cats do not like to be approached head on, so you have that down.

I wouldn’t even call him. Just be there quietly, don’t make any sudden moves…read or something calming. This lets him know that you are not scary.

Even though cats are carnivores, they can be victims of predators, so you do not want to act like one. Think of how much bigger you are than he is.

He was probably traumatized in some way, and you need to gain his trust and let him see that you won’t hurt him.

Placing food near and away from you to begin with is good. Then gradually bring it closer.

Be patient.

Someone please help me find how donald Meichenbaum contributed in Cognitive behavioural therapy approach?

Friday, December 18th, 2009

please really stuck. I have googled him and found alot organisation he is involve in but not about how his CBT contribution.

He developed "stress inoculation training" (a form of cognitive-behavioral therapy).

~Dr. B.~

Social Action and positvist approach to sociology?

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Can find anything clear about these on the net, question is: Distinguish and evaluate Social Action and positivist approach to sociology. (is sociology a science?)

These are the two different ways of ‘doing’ sociology

1.Positivism treats sociology as a science It collects the observable, objective, empiricial social facts using objective quantitative research methods
http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Sociology#Positivism_and_anti-positivism
(for a short clear one sentence descripition of positivism in sociology)

2. In contrast Social Action theory or Interractionism argues that there is a major difference between Sociology and the physical sciences in that sociologists also have to research, not only the objective facts, but peoples’ subjective interpretations of the world. ie to interview people using more qualitative research methods about their respondents feelings, responses to and interpretations of culture, values, and personal experiences.

Example Postivists would collect facts and collate statistics about how many people commit different forms of crime by gender ,ethnicity.class or age etc
Whereas social action theorists would join a young gang of street corner boys to understand
a) how the boys themselves interpet their own borderline deviant behaviour or
b) to understand how being labelled for a minor primary crime affects and intensifies their future ‘criminal career’

What is the correct way to restore a Windows XP system from a full backup?

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

I have a full backup prepared with the Windows XP utility. I got a new hard-drive, and after installing XP, tried doing a "Restore" using the utility. This naive approach did not work because it creates a sort of hybrid between the new and the old systems… with files from the recently installed system not fully removed. Is there a way to reformat the C: Drive and restore from backup all in one shot, so that the end-result will be a pristine copy of my originally backed up system?
Thanks!
The two answers so far really miss the point of the question!

If you insert the windows cd, there will be option for for formating/clean install and recovery from back up called known good configuaration.

but I recommend it slightly differently. To be safest, create partition in hard drive. then back up your previous installation there. Install fresh in other drive.

How to approach a girl who is with her friends?

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

I am a bit too shy at first, and would like to know how to approach a girl who is with her friends. It is kind of embarrassing to ask her out in front of them.

Could you please help me with this problem.
Thanks very much.

Ask her if you can speak to her privately…
Ask her to walk with you to class or the cafeteria…