What is your approach to teaching your baby?
Wednesday, February 10th, 2010About a year ago, when I was pregnant with my daughter, we had a family get together and 2 of my cousins were there with their 9-10 month old babies. Both boys were already walking, understanding some language, and very interested in exploring.
Their families had two completely different parenting styles. One of my cousins was constantly saying ‘no,’ slapping her son’s hand, putting him in ‘time out,’ etc. and viewed her son as being ‘naughty.’
My other cousin, viewed everything as a teaching opportunity. ‘Don’t hit; touch softly’ (and show him how). ‘That’s not a toy; let’s go play with (offers him a toy).’ She talked constantly to him explaining things in simple ways.
Both babies were essentially into the same things, but one was always ‘in trouble,’ while the other was joyfully exploring.
I instantly knew that I would be going with the latter approach with my child.
What is your parenting style like? If you choose a punitive approach, what merit do you see in it?
All babies are differnt. My first walked a week before he was nine months old, and my second did not walk unitl he was 12 months. It didn’t have anything to do with my discipline style.
That being said, nine months is WAY to early to use slapping of the hand and time out as discipline, especially when they are just doing normal baby exploration. Save that for the Terrible Twos.